We had to make changes for our safety and sanity
Written by Marjorie Weiss | January 30, 2026
It was 2:30 a.m., and I was peacefully asleep when I was jolted awake by an arm suddenly flinging over from the other side of the bed, landing squarely on my face. Instantly, shrieks erupted — first from me, then from my husband, Dave, and finally from both of us together. “Stop it, Dave!” I shouted. “You’re having a dream!”
Dave snapped back to reality, immediately apologized, and asked if I was injured. This is his usual response after one of his night terrors, especially when it involves the rare but unforgettable physical outbursts directed at me.
Dave has lived with Parkinson’s disease for 25 years, since he was 49. About a decade after his diagnosis, he began experiencing a new symptom: vivid, active dreaming. He often talks in his sleep, rarely making much sense when I’m awake to overhear him. Most of the time, it’s benign, sometimes even cheerful, and I simply roll over and drift back to sleep. Occasionally, though, he acts out, defending himself against imagined dangers in his dreams. I should stress that these nighttime thrashings and outbursts are not routine. Instead of his usual lighthearted sleep talk, he’ll sometimes cry out in genuine fear. He rarely remembers much about these dreams, so I typically don’t press for details.
Read more here: Finding solutions for REM sleep behavior disorder with Parkinson’s
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